I saw a recent reference to this essay on Punch Debt in the Face's blog. I'm not sure I agree with all of it -- there's still a fair amount of whining on some of these items, this writer likes to admit it or not. But it does give you something to think about.
It's been making the rounds of the Internet. Pass it on, if you want...
Somehow we survived!!!
Looking back, it's hard to believe that we have lived as long as we have...
children, we would ride in cars with no seat belts or air bags. Riding
in the back of a pickup truck on a warm day was always a special treat.
Our baby cribs were covered with bright colored lead-based paint.
had no childproof lids on medicine bottles, doors, or cabinets, and
when we rode our bikes, we had no helmets. (Not to mention hitchhiking
to town as a young kid!)
We drank water from the garden hose and not from a bottle. Horrors.
would spend hours building our go-carts out of scraps and then rode
down the hill, only to find out we forgot the brakes. After running into
the bushes a few times we learned to solve the problem.
would leave home in the morning and play all day, as long as we were
back when the streetlights came on. No one was able to reach us all day.
No cell phones. Unthinkable.
played dodgeball and sometimes the ball would really hurt. We got cut
and broke bones and broke teeth and there were no law suits from these
accidents. They were accidents. No one was to blame but us. Remember accidents?
We had fights and punched each other and got black and blue and learned to get over it.
We ate cupcakes, bread and butter, and drank sugar soda but we were never overweight ... we were always outside playing.
We shared one grape soda with four friends, from one bottle and no one died from this?
did not have Playstations, Nintendo 64, X Boxes, video games at all, 99
channels on cable, video tape movies, surround sound, personal cellular
phones, Personal Computers, internet chat rooms, ... we had friends. We
went outside and found them.
We rode bikes or walked to a friend's home and knocked on the door, or rung the bell or just walked in and talked to them.
such a thing. Without asking a parent! By ourselves! Out there in the
cold cruel world! Without a guardian. How did we do it?
We made up
games with sticks and tennis balls and ate worms and although we were
told it would happen, we did not put out very many eyes, nor did
the worms live inside us forever.
We ate penny candy, swallowed bubblegum -and our intestines did not stick together because of it.
Little League had tryouts and not everyone made the team. Those who didn't had to learn to deal with disappointment.
students weren't as smart as others so they failed a grade and were
held back to repeat the same grade ... Horrors. Tests were not adjusted
for any reason.
actions were our own. Consequences were expected. No one to hide
behind. The idea of a parent bailing us out if we broke a law was
unheard of. They actually sided with the law, imagine that!
generation has produced some of the best risk-takers and problem solvers
and inventors, ever. The past 50 years has been an explosion of
innovation and new ideas.
We had freedom, failure, success and
responsibility,! and we learned how to deal with it all. And you're one
of them. Congratulations!
Please pass this on to others that have
had the luck to grow up as kids, before lawyers and government regulated
our lives. For our own good, right?
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